The late Father Frederick G. Lawrence, of the Missionary Servants of the Most Holy Trinity, gave the first Serenity Retreat in December 1964, at the request of an Al-Anon group. Father Fred, as he was affectionately called, gave more than forty Serenity Retreats each year by himself.

Originally intended for the wives, mothers, and relatives of friends of alcoholics (Al-Anon members), Serenity Retreats now serve members of many Twelve Step programs--those people who suffer emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

Father Fred, the founder of Serenity Retreats, was very careful to specify that these retreats are NOT part of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), nor of Al-Anon (families of alcoholics), nor of Alateen (children of alcoholics). Rather, they are but an extension of the spiritual growth nurtured by all Twelve Step fellowships and pursued by each individual in his or her own way.

A Serenity Retreat is a sharing of experience, problems, strength, solutions and hope. Stress is placed on turning one's will and life over to God to improve conscious contact with God. Dogmatic debates and doctrinal discussions are NOT part of these retreats. Serenity Retreat prayers have been compiled from prayer books of various denominations.

A Serenity Retreat is usually held in a retreat house; however, resort hotels, camps and college facilities have also been used. Between scheduled conferences or talks, there is time for sharing and for spiritual search.

While a "spirit of silence" is encouraged, Retreatants also feel free to share ideas and inspiration with one another. The basic therapy of this new way of life is sharing. Discussion groups form after some of the retreat conferences. Small groups analyze the talk, and develop it more thoroughly to help make it meaningful to each participant. Private sessions with the retreat leader are often available on an optional basis.

Serenity Retreats are nondenominational, ecumenical and spiritual rather than specifically religious. The leaders may be Catholic, Protestant, Jewish ministers or laypersons. Only spiritual leaders familiar with Twelve Step programs lead Serenity Retreats.